Thanks everyone! Yes it is really hard. I'm trying to be very respectful in my communications, but I do believe my vets and I fulfilled the contract, so it looks like legally I should receive a new cat (that feels aweful to say - nothing could ever replace my poor little one who passed)..
So what happened with him was really complicated so I will try to be succinct. He was in the ICU for 4 days.. the first sign was an infected collapsed lung and a very high fever (105.5). Steadily each day he got worse and his blood value results declined (his organs were enlarged but functioning normally). He died after 4 days of very intense treatment and the autopsy indicated that:
- Chronic moderate to marked hypertrophic cardiomyopathy
- lung abnormalities (collapsed and infected) were a result of his heart problems
- pancytopenia (extremely low levels of white blood cells, red blood cells, platelets, etc.)
The veterinarians stated that the pancytopenia could only have been caused by FeLV, the ingestion of anti-cancer drugs (etc.), or as an auto-immune response against itself. The vets ran multiple viral tests on both blood samples and bone marrow samples and everything came up negative (so no FeLV, FCV etc.). I have no chemicals or drugs in the house (house was completely kitten proof and I don't have cancer or any health issues). So they believe that it was an out of control auto-immune response directed against baby blood cells.
The breeder believes he was poisoned somehow. Having a cat be poisoned shares a few similar symptoms but overall his symptom presentation was actually very different. All of the vets that handled the case (there were about 6, some of whom were internal medicine specialists and all worked as emergency vets) told me vehemently that he was not poisoned and they would have been able to immediately tell from his blood panels that were taken every day (the values would be completely different). In fact, they seem to be getting very sick of me asking lol. The breeder also denies that he has HCM and says his heart was a result of poisoning also, since she says the parents have been genetically tested for HCM and the tests came back negative. But the autopsy results clearly state that he had moderate to marked chronic HCM and that it strained his lungs. This is all so shocking, since the severity is extreme in a 6 month old cat!!
We cannot ever know.. but from the progression of his decline and how the symptoms appeared, it really looked like the auto-immune response was a crazy reaction against his lung issues (which were a result of the heart problems).