well time for an update, i was going to post sooner but my main pc has been crashing constantly (think my SSD hard drive might be dying). i took the week off work and was too lazy to get my laptop from the car lol.
so the overall journey went by much faster then i thought. Sunday took forever to come, the week at work was extremely slow. Exotic tails is about a 1.5 hour drive each way from where i live and i didnt want to travel alone. my brother took on the mission of driving me out, who also lives 1 hour away from me. his overall travel time was 5 hours, so i was glad he was up for the task (i provided food, gas and stuff to help.)
i was told i needed to bring a crate for Atlas, so he was secured for the ride home. we loaded him up and he was not very impressed
after we got onto the highway, it was about 1 hour of pure cruising. i couldnt listen to him crying the entire time so i let him wander around, leaving the door open for when he wanted to go back in. after the door opened, he started to explore right away, and was not scared. he also stopped crying the second the door opened, and remained quiet the entire ride with the occasional hellos.