Nah, the biggest kitties in my household are definitely at the bottom of the pecking order. Nina is a very large F1 and she's bullied by my petite F4C girl (who weirdly has birthed some very large sons). Debby (Trouble's mommy) had seen one of my larger kittens as an adult and thinks he might be taller than Trouble... that kitty is a complete baby of a cat to the toddlers and petite F6 female he lives with.
Sometimes I think that they do know how large they are and how scary that can be to other cats, but most the time I think they are more like gentle giants with no concept of size. I sent off Babbage at a year old and 18lbs of lean legginess and he was a complete coward when it came to the other kitty residents. So I think "trouble" can come in kitties of all sizes, it's an individual thing just like the lottery of size can be
Sometimes I think that they do know how large they are and how scary that can be to other cats, but most the time I think they are more like gentle giants with no concept of size. I sent off Babbage at a year old and 18lbs of lean legginess and he was a complete coward when it came to the other kitty residents. So I think "trouble" can come in kitties of all sizes, it's an individual thing just like the lottery of size can be