So I just thoght of a couple more questions, and your advice would be greatly appreciated.
My understanding was that it was a pretty stressfull morning for both the boys this morning. Abu went nuts according to my son looking for his Zues, I guess he spent the whole time we were gone wandering the house and calling for Zeus (yowling was the word my son used). Is there any way to help this seperation anxiety>
Next, While at the vet Zeus was not happy in the carrier. In fact he got down right mad, you could hear it in his voice and the way he was making the whole carrier bounce around, (I couldn't get him to settle down much). I'm having a couple of harnesses made for the boys, and I would imagine that they would be a less stressful solution versus carriers, except they don't provide a place to hide from other animals. I think I will take both the harness and the carrier next time. Please share your experiencie with either.
Finally, Abu doesn't like to be held at all ... not a bit. And believe me I know how fast and effective his claws are. I'm taking Abu into the vet in a couple of weeks just to introduce him to the vet get an overall assesment how he is doing etc.
I would really prefer that the vet not be maimed (I use this word jokingly, please don't make it more than it is

) by Abu's visit. Any thoughts here would be appreciated as well. I've been trying to work on getting Abu to be comfortable being held, but I think some cats just don't go for that. Don't get me wrong, he like to cuddle with people, and does so everyday, he just doesn't like to be picked up, or have his movement confined in any way. (I don't blame him).
Thanks again all
Rob