NikkiA
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Storming, I am glad to hear he is settling in well and feeling better.
We made a mistake when Jarvis was a kitten that took months to rectify. I picked him up, carried him, and forced him to interact with me when he was afraid. It took months and months to undue the damage I did by being pushy. Look for the savannah kitten behavior thread. We are in a good place now where he wants to snuggle with me and be touched by me almost every day now, and even asks for belly rubs, but it was a long uphill battle to win his trust. If I had it to do over again I would never have forced him, but I didn't realize at the time that I was doing all the wrong things, and I would hate for anything similar to happen with you and Teukie.
We made a mistake when Jarvis was a kitten that took months to rectify. I picked him up, carried him, and forced him to interact with me when he was afraid. It took months and months to undue the damage I did by being pushy. Look for the savannah kitten behavior thread. We are in a good place now where he wants to snuggle with me and be touched by me almost every day now, and even asks for belly rubs, but it was a long uphill battle to win his trust. If I had it to do over again I would never have forced him, but I didn't realize at the time that I was doing all the wrong things, and I would hate for anything similar to happen with you and Teukie.