MYNXX
Savannah Super Cat
You are so on point in the feeling and vibe of your responses. The response, helps me better contemplate, and understand better as I weigh words, where personality and vibe are lost in translation. Thanks for the time, as it helps answer to that issue. I am trying to find if anyone has experience with St John's Wort, or other natural remedies for stress. anti depression. Early on it was clear she missed her mother, who apparently she never much left the side of....
My wife is now in the closet with her and I in the living room with the boy...
I feel bad about scaring in her into the closet. Felt rushed, and realised if I just would have waited she would have found herself there anyways. I am heavily checking myself right now, my emotions, and general sense of being. Simply because I am generally extreme about everything, and see it's value, it is not appropriate with her at all, and i think you are all right about how receptive they really are. I am learning. This is not just our home anymore, it is OUR home, and am trying to put them both first as much as possible. I did not quite realize these truths till now, and am grateful for them. Life is a crazy thing.
I think exercise has been underrated by me. I try; at least an hour a day. Some have slipped. especially after the vet when healing, and the difference was huge. We try to play with her a lot, but it has taken a lot of energy just to get swipes, let alone her out of the tree.... Between rehoming, then the vet, and my general, and understandable, yet destructive forceful and stressful vibe, I think that has effected her a lot. Mind you my vibe has been quite gentle, and spending my life with horse, and Brazilian Mastiffs I am familiar with these things, just not enough as per the particular sensitivity of these beings. I think my wife will do much better in this regard, and help me re establish the bond I feel has back-tracked with her.
I notice there is a split sense of truth in the world that is expressly apparent here.
1, where we supplement with physical whether diet and exercise or pills, etc, and
2 where we address with love.
I am taking a full spectrum approach here.
1 with diet, and exercise (the eastern medicine route) and
2 with love (a Buddhist route) and
3 after truly testing the water, the western route of last resort, more invasive (maybe?) medications
Those are in order for a reason, and I will report my findings, but I have faith. We will see.
Constantly open ears here, and we are all learning. I can't imagine having children of my own. OMG
Throughout the realness I am, and trying to be for them and myself, overall there is a very centered vibe in our lives, that we were excited to share with them. Even so, I am really coming to see the depth of what people mean by about being owned by a savannah. They really feel you, and the reality of that goes deep.
Unfortunately i think she was rushed into the vet before getting a grip on things, main while being dominated by him, and our learning curve didn't help, but she is strong, and It seems just patience, and love is really what should answer to this. If I don't see a response in her, I will try herbal medication and then prozac for a limited time, to see If the stress and trauma can be curbed. Beyond all this and the next few weeks, it may be a longer time frame, and even more listening, and patience, and love. I am ok with that.
I once met a descendant of King Kamehameha, who told me "we have love for the demons, we are here for them with open arms, and love". I believe there is another way, than the absent minded short cuts we tend to in our own paths of growth. I don't know if this is karma or what, but if any of the rest of my life is a tell, I look forward to sharing another beautiful story with you down the road.
Thanks again for your time! <3 <3 <3
