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Were you wearing socks in that video? If I were you, I'd wear shoes and instead of reacting to him with "no" I would ignore his behavior...sweet talk conversationally and keep moving. It's not nearly as aggressive to me watching that as I had expected from description. I wonder if much of it isn't the tension he's sensing from you also? It's natural to feel tense if you think that every time you move the cat is going to pounce and hiss...but that tension and anxiety transmits to the cat and hence will make the situation worse.
Aside from the towel, I've also seen it suggested to grab a piece of cardboard...it's the same idea of shielding from view. And maybe worth it to just deter the pouncing for now.
I agree with Deb that something is triggering the behavior... and figuring out that will help resolve the behavior...
Were you wearing socks in that video? If I were you, I'd wear shoes and instead of reacting to him with "no" I would ignore his behavior...sweet talk conversationally and keep moving. It's not nearly as aggressive to me watching that as I had expected from description. I wonder if much of it isn't the tension he's sensing from you also? It's natural to feel tense if you think that every time you move the cat is going to pounce and hiss...but that tension and anxiety transmits to the cat and hence will make the situation worse.
Aside from the towel, I've also seen it suggested to grab a piece of cardboard...it's the same idea of shielding from view. And maybe worth it to just deter the pouncing for now.
I agree with Deb that something is triggering the behavior... and figuring out that will help resolve the behavior...