I know I'm coming into the update late in the game what generation was Dante? How old what were his problems? Not sure which thread to read. Or how far back to go. is the peeing that big of a problem? was it the sole problem? I too have pee issues with my Loki bear. I actually came on here to inquire what Kristin thinks may be his problem. I may have solved it after much trial and error but still have occasional problems just not daily anymore. Maybe the new owner isn't suited to Dante if they aren't prepared to handle piddle problems. I would make it well known if you do have to find a new home for him. that way the next owner would know what to expect and have a little more patience. It is quite irritating but we love the don't we. It's like taking care of a toddler. those mischievous lil guys they know just how to tear at our heart strings
Hi Bekki, you can read most of the story here in this thread (or do a search on keyword Dante with posts by user Dantes), Dante is a Ragdoll, and one with an attitude, wanting to dominate even my SV, Duma. He just turned 4 yesterday, I had him from 9 weeks (too young!) and he started around 6 months, so it was over 2 years of dealing with the issue, I've tried almost everything.
I don't think it's about his new owner, she's really lovely and took him on even knowing he had problems. The deal with rehoming him was 1. full disclosure of his issues, 2. he must be an only cat, and 3. he must be returned if she can't deal with his issues--I do NOT want him to end up in a shelter under any circumstance.
So far she hasn't suggested giving up, it's more my anxiety about it that I was voicing, as I need to be prepared in case she does give up at some point.
