He sees my mother about once every 2 weeks, but he's not completely comfortable with her. He will eventually come to her, but I always have to remind her to curb her enthusiasm and just sit quietly until he's good and ready to come over and sniff her. Problem is, is that she's elderly (88) and lives 15 miles away from me by car.
My trip involves 8 hours driving to get there. One night's stay in a motel, a full day for me in a transmission shop with an immediate drive home that night for 8 hours. I'd like to take him but need advice on whether or not he'd be more stressed by this, or not. He tolerates driving in the car very well. Not a peep out of him, and he just seems to be "zoned-out" but calm in his crate. He doesn't react to anything so I'm thinking that this is typical cat behavior of catatonia while traveling. (?)
The motel stay shouldn't be a problem, as I'll lock him in the bathroom overnight to avoid him damaging stuff in the room. Of course, I'd remove all the towels, toilet paper and possible shower curtain from the bath as long as he's in there. I don't know what to do with him while I'm occupied in the transmission shop.