Hello Fellow Savannites

[WitchyWoman]

You don't need anyone to tell you that Zidi is making great progress -- you can see it every day. She has come such a long way due to your hard work and devotion. Give yourself a big pat on the back and treat yourself to something special. She will continue to progress, and even if this is as good as it gets, it's a gazillion times better than it was. And she's happy and loved and that matters more than anything else.

 

[Carykd7kau]

Thanks Deb. I think I just need someone to confirm my feelings. I have misread some emotional situations in the last 2 years that have destroyed my confidence in my intuition, and so I don't trust me very much. I see what i am seeing... I know that it is good... but I don't trust my own views.

 

[shimmeringsoul]

you need to trust your self before anything take a look back in the last few months do you feel you have been doing a good job??

if you do then you have been doing a good job trust your self and try not to over think things. from what i can tell from reading your posts, i feel you have everything under controll keep your chin up and remind your self of the great job you are doing with your babys, look at them and remember you are the one putting a roof over their heads, food in their bellies and toys at their accecss. you take care of them and make sure they are happy and safe so i would say your doing an amazing job but its not up to anyone to tell you how you are going you need to tell your self how you are doing.

make sure everyday to tell yourself you are doing a great job. look in the mirror and say to your self " i love you, you are working hard and doing an amazing job keep up the amazing work" you will feel better soon. keep your chin up because your energys effect your babys too they feel you not trusting yourself so make sure you trust your feelings maybe meditate if you can find a few mins every few days. no matter what you are your worst critic so dont be to hard on your self your babys feel your emotion no matter what you do so make sure to keep that in mind when training or anything if you feel out of wack you babys might too

 

[Carykd7kau]

you need to trust your self before anything take a look back in the last few months do you feel you have been doing a good job??

if you do then you have been doing a good job trust your self and try not to over think things. from what i can tell from reading your posts, i feel you have everything under controll keep your chin up and remind your self of the great job you are doing with your babys, look at them and remember you are the one putting a roof over their heads, food in their bellies and toys at their accecss. you take care of them and make sure they are happy and safe so i would say your doing an amazing job but its not up to anyone to tell you how you are going you need to tell your self how you are doing.

make sure everyday to tell yourself you are doing a great job. look in the mirror and say to your self " i love you, you are working hard and doing an amazing job keep up the amazing work" you will feel better soon. keep your chin up because your energys effect your babys too they feel you not trusting yourself so make sure you trust your feelings maybe meditate if you can find a few mins every few days. no matter what you are your worst critic so dont be to hard on your self your babys feel your emotion no matter what you do so make sure to keep that in mind when training or anything if you feel out of wack you babys might too

Everything you said Is absolutely on target Shimmer.. But it is so difficult to trust my intuition. It has not served me well in the past. I just hold on to the fact that it has been right on with cats, but totally untrustworthy when it comes to people. SO, dealing with my girls I want to trust it.

 

[shimmeringsoul]

Everything you said Is absolutely on target Shimmer.. But it is so difficult to trust my intuition. It has not served me well in the past. I just hold on to the fact that it has been right on with cats, but totally untrustworthy when it comes to people. SO, dealing with my girls I want to trust it.

thats understandable but you have to let yourself make a few mistakes its apart of life and learning just keep close eye when you are not sure make sure to ask your self is it something that is better to be safe then sorry then go from there but trust your self with your babys i agree when it comes to people its very hard but you gotta take chances some times as long as it is something little. always as your self is it better to be safe then sorry. i had to make a huge choice myself and i was so scared i made the wrong choice it was when it came to freddy's shots i know i will be taking him out with me and the contact said to not get them a sertain shot and the vet said it a good idea to get the shot so i asked myself is it better to be safe have him covered by his shots in case something happens and possable have the contract voided or should i take a risk to freddy and followm the contract and not get him the shot and run the risk of him getting attacked then get sick when we are out and about? i chose to take a huge chance and got the shot with the risk of voiding my contract. after i got home i emailed the breeder to talk to her and make sure i had made the right choice she said i did make the right choice since freddy will be outside everyday with me be it in my car port or back yard or out at the beach there is always a chance something crazy could happen so trust your self you got the parent insinct im sure so try to trust yourself.

 

[shimmeringsoul]

trail and error

 

[Carykd7kau]

Thanks.

 

[shimmeringsoul]

if my words can help someone at any point i know i have done well i hope i have helped

 

[Britt Gobble]

Hi Carykd7kau! Look forward to getting to know you!

 

[Carykd7kau]

Hi Britt . Cary is fine. The rest (kd7kau) is my ham radio call sign. So I am getting a new F2 boy in 9 days. You will have plenty to read. LOL