these are things i like to hear, thanks to everybody here! trust me its not like we got her, decided we didn;t like her and are just gonna give her away. its not even like that for any breeders who are getting upset over our situation, Like i said i researched over a year about her, not to mention saved hard for 6 months straight to afford her, and want her so much, look at her lol we love her. We have just been feeling like she's not anything like we read about, It would be hypothetically like this, ( so you can understand how im feeling) If you wanted a certain car, and you researched it .. and everything said Handles like a dream! Comes with amazing CD player and sound system, good on gas! etc etc etc , and then you finally got it, and it doesn;t handle like a dream, and has no cd player, and no sound system, and cost 200$ to fill and last a week lol. Thats the problem here sorry for the wierd example, I just find that she doesn;t do all the things these cats are famous for, and are supposed to be doing, but i guess thats on me to work harder with her to get the results im looking for. PLease don't take me the wrong way and think i'm just throwing my cat away! Im glad I reached out here for help, and will be trying eveything you guys have said!