When they say they wish to do a biopsy of the eye, is that because they see a lesion there? Dry FIP is often seen as uveitis, which is inflammation inside the eye, so the eye doesn't look so clear but a bit cloudy...si that what Tilly looks like?
What is making them think FIP? It is very very hard to diagnose dry FIP... you don't have the abdominal fluid to test for the virus. Biopsies can help... but often you will only diagnose by necropsy :-(
Still, if it were me, I'd want to be very sure. The one cat I have had that did have dry FIP we did a lot of testing, the protein profiles were most useful in diagnosing it, along with the sequential ruling out of all other possibilities.
I would trust my vet, and think it ESSENTIAL to find a vet you can trust because in these situations it is terrible to not know if you can rely on their opinion.
If you think it is FIP, then I would take her home for one night to say goodbye, but personally I think the kindest most loving thing we can do sometimes is to help them pass painlessly.
I am so very sorry, I had hoped to read better news today :-(
What is making them think FIP? It is very very hard to diagnose dry FIP... you don't have the abdominal fluid to test for the virus. Biopsies can help... but often you will only diagnose by necropsy :-(
Still, if it were me, I'd want to be very sure. The one cat I have had that did have dry FIP we did a lot of testing, the protein profiles were most useful in diagnosing it, along with the sequential ruling out of all other possibilities.
I would trust my vet, and think it ESSENTIAL to find a vet you can trust because in these situations it is terrible to not know if you can rely on their opinion.
If you think it is FIP, then I would take her home for one night to say goodbye, but personally I think the kindest most loving thing we can do sometimes is to help them pass painlessly.
I am so very sorry, I had hoped to read better news today :-(