He is a monster
Haha, thank you. I still am unsure of what a "big" kitty is; to be honest, it doesn't seem like he is growing, but that my Bengals are shrinking (they
seem tiny, despite being decent-sized felines). At the minimum, be thankful you're messing with a reasonable-sized kitten, not a 20 lb, 9.5 month old wrecking ball (okay, it's not
that bad...).
It seems that the bigger the kitty, the more of a handful they are. Trouble, who was the world record holder for the tallest cat, was returned to his breeder. With my kitty, the breeder told me she spent a lot of time socializing Nitro and refused to place him is a couple of homes because she thought they couldn't handle him. Thankfully, I seem to be a good fit.