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Becki:Price is a double edged sword. It was hard for me to ask because I didn't want to seem a tire kicker, nor did I want my heart set on a baby I couldn't afford. I wouldn't want to be insulting by offering. I negotiate for a living, so you think this would be easy for me! But when it comes to something that is going to be a loved member of the family, and you are purchasing from breeders you have researched to be reputable, the dynamics change drastically.
I know I am going to get 1 more Savannah. After that, no mas. I really want an f1, and am aiming for spring of next year (bonus time! Ha!). I would like to think I am one of those "right" homes breeders talk about, Nyah and Kovu are super loved, horribly rotten spoiled creatures who live incredibly pampered lives. But how do you put that in an email introduction and not sound self serving and discount seeking? Or how do you put the message out that you are a serious buyer, though timing isn't immediate? But me! Pick me for your kittens (in March)! Also, can you tell me prices or make up to $x work? I would be scared to death my email would be flagged with the crazy emoticon and forwarded to all other breeders as a warning!![]()
Your sensitivity to the dynamics at work behind the scenes gives you the advantage of being able to craft a wonderful note of introduction...and it SHOULD include an inquiry regarding pricing.
What Breeders find annoying is the note that says NOTHING EXCEPT "HOW MUCH?" and fails to share any details whatsoever about the potential home. DO introduce yourself and your cats openly and share your love for them (most breeders are VERY persnickety about the homes they send their babies to, so sharing your love for your existing cats and the Breed in general is a VERY favorable thing!)
Next share the budget you are working with and see what the Breeder says when they respond to you. You may find that you aren't far off of the mark after all....AND if that is the case, you have now put yourself on a wait list for the Spring Litters... If the price is more than you can manage, then perhaps a kitten from a Fall litter will allow you some additional time to save up the difference (if any).
Breeders, like you, are just people. There is no harm in reaching out and gathering information and answers from the Breeders who you would like to purchase from. the worst thing they can say is "no" or advise you to wait and save up a bit more...but in the interim, you may be making life lasting friendships with some very special people.
I am NEVER annoyed at receiving a message from someone who is thoughtful enough to share something about the home they can provide, other animals in the household, their city/state of residence and ALSO asks me about pricing. This is MUCH different from the tire kicker who shares nothing or the prospective client who corresponds countless times and THEN asks about pricing only to discover they are in over their heads. THAT does get frustrating for sure...but you are not going to fall into that category, based on the approach you have proposed.
I do not produce F1s, but if I did, would be pleased to receive an inquiry as courteous and well thought out as the one you have proposed.
Good luck in your search....and, for the record, I also recommend Sue Armstrong at Amara for F1 shopping!
All best,
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