Can this whole convo be deleted? I am hurt and this forum is a negative path. -.-
I refuse to stop searching
Why is this forum a negative path? You have been posting on here for over a month, asking a zillion questions, which is great, and everyone has patiently answered your questions...people did tell you to take your time and slow down...perhaps you may want to heed that advice?
Breeders have buyers back out all the time and as long as no deposit is made, there is no deal...so if you did not put down a deposit yet, no deal was made. Unfortunately that is the way it goes.
Sometimes breeders have to think about things and ask more questions...it is our right to do so as we are entrusting our babies, that we love so much and cherish, to our kitten buyers...and sometimes we have second thoughts and gut feelings and many of us go with them...whether you agree or not, that is just the way it is.
I am sorry your feelings are hurt, but no one is discriminating against you...if a breeder decides not to sell a kitten based on whether he/she thinks the person would make a good kitten owner, that is his/her prerogative - it is certainly NOT discrimination...
And...you did bring the situation here, so you need to be prepared to accept replies either positive or negative.