So another update:
Still no poo - I think that issue is gone for now as it's been almost a week since the last incident. I think the enzyme cleaner helped whatever was going on. So unless it starts up again I'm just going to stop mentioning it.
Tonight she did what she did last night, with the fetching and jumping up on the couch with me and laying down near me. Only tonight she added walking across me to get to where she wanted to go. That's another plus in my opinion. I think if I am patient with this and keep giving her tons of attention and love that she'll eventually trust me enough to sit, lay, and even sleep
on me (fingers crossed) as opposed to just next to me.
Now I did have one question, the way I've been sitting or sometimes laying on the couch is either sideways laying down or sit/half laying, or sitting up entirely. Whenever I go to lay down flat on my back she want's to pounce between my legs and lay on the blanket there - but then she'll attack the blanket of my right leg (the one that is on the open side of the couch). She doesn't have her claws out, she's not biting down, but she'll get into this frenzied little motion that looks like she's freaking out. To me it seems like she think she'll be kept from jumping out when she's laying down, or at least that's how I perceive it. Needless to say I only did that once last night and changed positions quickly. Then I tried it once tonight to see if last night was a fluke, it wasn't. So why would she pounce in between my legs to lay down, if she doesn't really like it there and just freaks out?
As I said every other position so far has been fine. I need to remember to bring my phone down there and get a video of it or maybe even just pics. It's so cute sometimes (well how she is doing it in the good way, not the part where she's freaking out...) I still don't know why she doesn't like me laying in that position unless it is her thinking that she'll be blocked from jumping back out but I make sure to stay still in those cases. I have made sure to let her do what she wants to do and not force the issue, I've found that the less I try to control what she does, the more she actually does what I want her to lol